I’ve been dyeing my hair since my early twenties. I’ve been a blonde, a redhead, a brunette; I’ve had highlights, lowlights, you name it, I’ve probably tried it. But over the past few years, I’ve struggled with changes in hair texture and the constant need to touch up my roots, which now start to show as early as three weeks.
Last year, my husband shaved his head because his hair was thinning and he was tired of dealing with it. I remember asking him if he was sure he wanted to make such a drastic change. His response has stayed with me ever since. He said it was time for him to “become one with his oldness.” It sounded funny at the time, but now I understand exactly what he meant.
So, I’ve decided to let my hair go gray and I’d love for you to join me on the journey. My hope is to inspire anyone who’s been thinking about it but feels too nervous or uncertain to start. I’m now one month dye-free, beginning in August 2020. After doing lots of research and watching many YouTube videos, here’s what I’ve learned:
Options for Going Gray
- Bleach and dye it silver.
It’s expensive and can be very damaging to the hair. - Grow it out naturally.
This means living with two-tone hair for up to two years, depending on hair growth. - Shave your head and start over.
A bold move, just not for me. - Grow it out long enough, then cut it short.
You end up with an easier transition and a fresh new style.
I’m choosing option #4. My plan is to let it grow for 3–6 more months, then cut it very short and start fresh. Right now, my hair is about three inches below my shoulders.
It’s funny how I can barely remember my natural hair color anymore—or how much gray I actually have—but I’m ready to embrace the real me. I’m nervous, but I’m excited.
Below is a photo of my one-month grow out. In my next post, I’ll be sporting short hair! If any of you are thinking about doing the same, come along. Let’s empower and encourage one another every step of the way.
