Are you dating the same person over and over again?

Are you in the same dating pattern because it’s comfortable, or you don’t have the power to change it?
Many people hold on to relationships that don’t make them happy, and once they’ve ended, they’re likely we’ll fall into the same type again.
I had a friend who was married for a long time to a man who treated her very badly. After many years of being abused, she gathered enough courage to leave. Sometime later, she was in a similar relationship again. Makes you wonder why she didn’t learn from her prior relationship, not to end up with abusive men. I guess dating patterns are either hard to break, or we lack the courage to change.
Next time you’re dating someone, sit back and take a closer look at that person. Then look back at the people you’ve dated. What are the similarities?
Remember, it helps to be clear on what you’re looking for, and it’s important for you to allow change to happen.
Once you’ve identified what attracts you to that type of person, you’ll be able to decide if you this is the type of relationship that makes you happy, or it’s time to make a change.
Lastly, be realistic. Habits developed over time may also take an equal amount of time to get rid of. Be patient with yourself, and remain positive. It’ is possible for you to have a fulfilling relationship if you learn to stay away from partners who don’t appreciate and love you.