I’m tired of seeing dear friends, among others going through a painful divorce because their 40- to 50-something-year-oldhusband cheated with or left them for a younger woman. “You’re too fat, you let yourself go, you don’t pleasure me like you used to, you don’t understand me, you don’t give me what I need, I’m not in love with you anymore,” they explain. ALL BALONEY!
Why don’t they just admit that they are selfish, egotistic jerks who made a conscious decision to have sex with someone else? Do they actually think the little tramp is madly in love with them? Please, they’re in love alright, but with their money, position, and/or lavish lifestyle they can provide, or are taking from the marital home to provide.
Many of these women who are dumped by these “men going through some kinds of crisis” never saw it coming because they were probably too busy trying to be a good wife.
Ladies, if this happened to you, don’t worry: life’s a bitch, and karma will get the best of him. You’re better off without him anyway. My advice is to get what you’re financially entitled to, work on yourself physically and emotionally so you can feel better about yourself, and move on. That’s the best revenge.
Don’t allow the fact that he fell for a 20-something bring you down. It has nothing to do with you, rather with the fact that your mate decided to think of himself.
When a marriage is in trouble, it’s never a one-person show, and there’s never an excuse for cheating. Manipulating your mate into taking the blame is just tacky and outright mean.
Men, enjoy your little girl, because she won’t be around for long. In the meantime, your ex is going to thrive and find a man with the integrity and commitment you stripped from her. Someday you may regret it, if you have a conscience. If you don’t, even more reason for your ex to rejoice from not being with you!
P.S. Women, if this is you, shame on you too!
